IS LOVE WORTH IT?

The other day i heard that a promising law student in one of the university committed suicide because his girlfriend said it was over between them. two beautiful ladies fought and disgraced themselves because of a guy who was dating the both of them. I had to ask WHY? Why should you let your feelings for another person determine your actions? Why let go of the life you did not create just because someone let go of you? Why should you give up just because of something as  frivolous as "lost love"?
   As humans sometimes we can not even control ourselves, we can sometimes do things that baffles even us, so why for heaven's sake should you give so much control over you that your actions, sometimes even you life or death is determined by them all in the name of love. Life is too short to spend any of it on things that are that are unimportant,if you are lucky you get 80 years. A far as i am concerned the order in life is:-

1. God 
2. You
3. Others

   Do what makes you happy, as far as its not displeasing to God or your conscience. if you find true love, very good, but do not let it define you. you are an independent entity, you can exist alone, strong. You do not need someone to complete you. Someone can only share in your life but can not or should not complete it.

                                                                 BE STRONG.
                                                                 BE BRAVE.
                                                                 BE INDEPENDENT.